From AsianFinay

------->Words of advise lang naman. Di ko naman alam ang true story but just an advice regarding Long Distance Relationship

Napaka halaga ng TRUST sa ganyang relasyon. Its easy for us to say, “trust me”. Pero it’s a mind game. Isip mo ang kalaban mo direcho sa puso.

Specially, NET. Its easy to FLIRT. Girls/boys are everywhere. One click away lang. Naka expose ka na. No need to go anywhere, it could destroy your relationship so easily. Madaling sabihin “instant message lang yan, text lang yan, phone call lang yan. Wala yan. Friend lang yan”.

But you see, once na involve ka na with someone else. Hahanapin mo. Until ma apektuhan na ang relasyon nyo. HERE COMES LIES.

Sari saring palusot. Apektado na ang everyday communications nyo, dahil ME IBA. Next thing…. War na. Kahit ba, phone calls lang yon, kahit instant message lang yon, nag lalaro lang ako…. IT DOES HURT. Psychologically it will.

CUZ ME FEAR. Fear na eventually baka mahulog sa iba. Most specially kung nabago ang day to day schedules nyo for communications.

Paranoid na ba? Di naman siguro, yun lang ang reality.

Dapat lang kung attach na sa isa, STICK WITH IT. Don’t flirt anymore. Masasaktan lang yung taong nag mamahal sayo AT YUNG TAONG gusto kang ma career! Or Vice Versa.

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